Jody Jenine Fristoe

Jody Jenine Fristoe, a beloved wife, mother, daughter, and friend, left this world far too soon on April 29, 2025, in Independence, Missouri. Born on February 7, 1964, in Kansas City, Missouri, Jody's vibrant spirit and unwavering love for her family and community defined her life. 

Jody's journey in the world was marked by her deep commitment to the arts and her profound ability to touch the lives of those around her. As the Executive Director for Summit Art, a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting the visual arts, she utilized her leadership skills and creative talents to inspire others and foster a rich cultural environment in her community. 

Jody’s artistic prowess extended beyond her professional life; she was also a remarkably talented painter, pouring her heart into every brushstroke. An avid lover of cooking, sports, music and literature, she filled her life and the lives of those around her with creativity and warmth. Her artistic spirit was matched only by her dedication as a family member and community member. When her kids were still in school, Jody embraced volunteer roles of PTA President, room Mom, team Mom and manager, playing an active role in their lives and making a positive impact on the lives of countless others. She led with empathy, compassion, and a fierceness that was admired by all around her. 

Initially meeting Daren at their ‘first real job’ in high school, through college graduations at Mizzou and then starting their marriage in Tulsa, Oklahoma, they built a foundation as a couple and grew together. Her greatest joys were her son Adam and her daughter Emma. Nothing made her happier than to spend time with them and continue to be amazed at the extraordinary people they had become, each mirroring her best qualities. The family was a tight group of four, titling themselves as the ‘Fab 4’ in their shared text group for communication, using that group often to stay connected and share the day’s events. The best of times were when the four of them were together. Later in life, together with her husband, Daren Fristoe, she created treasured moments that would be remembered forever. They shared their joys and experiences through her Instagram page, "EmptyNesterSaturday," a platform where they documented their adventures and deepened their bond as a couple, reveling in the beauty of their community together. Their relationship was unwavering, one of her biggest points of pride. 

Jody is survived by her loving and devoted husband, Daren; her cherished children, Adam and Emma; her mother, Joyce Tatum; her brother, Mark Tatum (wife Mindy), and her beloved nieces and nephew, Sam Tatum (wife Olivia and daughter Merit), Marlo Tatum, Penelope Tatum and Josie Fristoe. Each of them will forever reflect the memories of Jody’s loving, colorful spirit, the depth of her unyielding passion and support. While they mourn her passing, they also celebrate her legacy, which is rooted in love, kindness, and a steadfast belief in the power of community. 

Jody will be remembered for her unwavering devotion to her family, her artistic endeavors, and her genuine efforts to create a nurturing and inspiring environment for all. Her legacy will continue to live on in the hearts of those she touched, reminding us that true artistry lies not just in skillful expression but in the loving connections we build with one another.

A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. 

In lieu of flowers, family suggest contributions to be made to:

Sarah Cannon Cancer Research at https://sarahcannon.com/about/sarah-cannon-fund.dot

and/or

Summit Art at https://summitart.org/donate/