Kathie Anne Jordan

Kathie was born to Alice (1919–1966) and Charles (1917–1985) on March 13, 1946, in New York City. She grew up in the city with her sister Joanne and her close friend Linda (1946–2025). She spent summers in Connecticut working as a camp counselor. Kathie attended the High School of Art and Design, but before graduating, her father was reassigned in 1962 from an Army base in New Jersey to Babenhausen, Germany. She finished high school there and met her future husband, Ralf.

In 1965, her father received new orders, and the family returned to New York City aboard the SS United States ocean liner which was made eventful by a terrible storm while at sea. Before enlisting in the Army, Ralf returned to New York to marry Kathie. Over the next 28 years, the family moved frequently with their son Cary and daughter Shelley, living in New York, North Carolina, Virginia, Oklahoma, Texas, and several locations throughout Germany.

Kathie was a stay-at-home mother who enjoyed crocheting, craft projects, and selling Tupperware and Avon. She was active in her children’s activities and often helped organize events and programs. Even after her children grew older, Kathie continued to volunteer, recognizing the need for support and leadership within the Girl Scouts. She dedicated many years to the organization in both Germany and the United States, eventually earning the title of Neighborhood Troop Committee Chairman (NTCC). She also supported local Boy Scout programs.

In 1993, after Ralf retired from military service, they settled in Lee’s Summit, Missouri. Kathie was an important part of her grandsons Scott and Dylan’s lives and was always there for any occasion, big or small. Community was always a priority for Kathie, she volunteered with her HOA, organized Neighborhood Watch, and created the neighborhood newsletter. She also advocated for the installation of speed bumps to help keep local children safe. Kathie enjoyed gardening, especially flowers, playing board games, and long phone conversations with her favorite people.

She survived ovarian cancer and faced the challenge with strength. During her recovery, Kathie once noticed a sunbeam reflecting off a mirror at exactly 4:03, her childhood address and from then on, “403” held special meaning for her. It felt fitting, and very much like Kathie, that she waited until the quiet early hours and passed away at 4 a.m., a moment that carried this special significance for her.

Kathie is survived by her devoted husband of 60 years, Ralf; her beloved cat, Francis; her sister, Joanne; her children Cary (Beth) and Shelley; her grandchildren Scott (Suzie), Dylan, Turner (Katie), Lauren (Travis), and Kaitlyn (Dillion); five nieces and nephews; and eight great-grandchildren.